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Mifepristone..."The Abortion Pill": The Facts
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Mifepristone..."The Abortion Pill": The Facts
Sujatha Sebastian
On September 28, 2000 the Food and Drug Administration after several years of research approved Mifepristone, better known as the "abortion pill", for distribution in the United States. The FDA's decision will have a definite impact on women's health care in the United States. There will be social and medical repercussions. The drug has caused controversy not only in antiabortion groups, but in Pro-Choice groups as well. Critics are worried that an abortion available in pill form will be "too easy". They are worried that use of the pill will be abused. What many people do not realize is that while Mifepristone will be beneficial to women's health care, it is not without side effects. In light of all the recent coverage that the "abortion pill" has been given in the media, and all the misinformation surrounding it, I decided researching that Mifepristone would be interesting and helpful. The purpose of my paper is to discover how Mifepristone works, how it is administered, and to look at its side effects. I want to demonstrate the benefit Mifepristone will be to women's health care, while showing that it is not an "easy" solution to abortion."Mifepristone, formerly known as RU-486, is a medical alternative to aspiration abortion."(1) It works by blocking progesterone from being absorbed into the uterus. When this happens the uterus sheds the endometrium (lining in the uterus, therefore inducing menstruation. (2 When Mifepristone is used as a method for abortion is it administered as part of a three step process. The first step is that 200 mg of Mifepristone is given orally in a doctor's office. Then within 24 to 48 hours the patient is given 400 mg a drug called Misoprostol either orally or in a suppository form. Misoprostol, which is a synthetic hormone, is used to get the cervix to soften and dilate as well as getting the uterus to relax. The embryo is then expelled.(2) This is supposed to happen approximately fours hours after the administration of the drug. The final step is an examination by a medical professional to make sure the abortion is complete. (2)
There are restrictions as to who can use this medical method of abortion. It is only intended for women to use up to nine weeks after their last menstruation period. Women who are under 18 or over 35, epileptic, diabetics, or suffering from heart, lung, kidney, liver, stomach or intestinal disorders are ineligible. As are women who have taken steroids within the past 12 months, or deemed overweight or a heavy smoker. Women who have used an IUD or hormonal contraceptive within three months prior to conception are not allowed to take Mifepristone as well.(2)
Like any drug or medical method there are side effects to using Mifepristone and Misoprostol. It is the number of side effects and degree of each that critics argue about. The FDA has determined that taking Mifepristone does cause various degrees of pain. Short term physical effects can be pelvic pain, vaginal bleeding, nausea, diarrhea, and fatigue.(2) There are psychological side effects as well. In some cases products of the conception are visualized. (3)
The use of Mifepristone will have a definite impact on reproductive freedom in this country and the world. (3) It is seen as less invasive procedure which gives the woman more freedom and privacy. In the United States it has been reported by the Alan Guttmacher Institute that eighty-nine percent of the abortions occur in the first 12 weeks of pregnancy. Mifepristone will allow women another option to terminate a pregnancy in its early stages. (2) Twenty-four percent of the world's population lives in places where abortion is not legal. (3) As a result a significant population of women perform their own abortions or receive illegal abortions which kills them. The medical method of abortion would allow women in these areas of the world to receive a safe method of abortion.
A major issue that critics of Mifepristone have is that they feel that the drug will allow abortions to become "too easy". But the drug is only administered in a medical office and requires at least three visits. The last visit is an examination to see that the abortion is complete and that the mother is in good health. Before the patient is given Mifeprex tablets (Mifepristone) she must sign an agreement in which she acknowledges that there are side effects, that there is a three step process, and that 5 to 8 women out of every hundred do not have successful medical abortions and need surgical abortions . (5) Critics worry that the drug will cause an increase in the number of women who have abortions. Supporters of the drug cite the fact that in France, where the drug is manufactured and was first administered, there has not been an increase in the abortion rate. (2)
Mifepristone will change the way that abortions are administered. This method gives a woman more autonomy and does not require her to go through surgical procedure. It can also prevent pregnancy by taken as soon as a day after she has had intercourse. This new method will allow more women to have access to safe abortions. Mifepristone opens the door to a new area of medicine in which previously surgical procedures are now approached in a medical manner. Whether in support of or against Mifepristone one has to recognize the new technology the drug represents.
One of the problems I had when researching information was finding unbiased information. Both pro and anti Mifepristone groups used "research" and statistics to their benefit. Distinguishing the difference between opinion and fact was difficult. This is especially true because there is not a lot of accurate information about Mifepristone published by reliable sources. This is due to the fact that Mifepristone has just recently been approved by the Food and Drug Administration. Mifepristone that will be beneficial to women's health care and medicine. But one must realize that it is not without side effects and cannot be seen as an "easy" solution to abortion.
WWW Sources
1)www.plannedparenthood.org/mifepristone.html, Mifepristone2)www.rascalnut.com/naral.ohio/RU486.html, The Facts about Mifepristone (RU 486)
3)www.mja.com.au/public/issues/sep15/henshaw/henshaw.html, Mifepristone
4)http://jinx.sis.unsw.edu.au/~greenlft/1994/137/137p28htm, "Abortion Pill": A Woman's Right to Choose by, Kath Gelber
5)www.popcouncil.orgrhpdev/mifeprex/patient%5Fagreement.html,The Patient Agreement Mifeprex (Mifepristone) Tablets
6) www.pages.map.com/lroberge/ru486.htm, RU486: The Hidden Effects by Lawrence F. Roberge
6) www.nrlc.org/ru486/propsedFDAregs.html, RU486 *Please note that some of the sources read during my research were from biased sources (the National Right to Life Committee web site for example). Facts were not used from these sources in my paper. These sources were instead used to discover the arguments anti-Mifepristone groups had and to see the false information they were publishing about the drug.
08/06/2005, from a Reader on the Web I took that pill and almost blead to death now i have have to say it's not as easy as it sounds it is very painful like child birth but more blooder atleast for me i now have endromitrious and may have to have my women parts removed i had nothing before i took those pills i'm 37 so i'm just saying better think it out before you take it because it's dangerious i have a son who is 18 it was easier for me to have him then go through childbirth than taking those pills becuse i'm still not well and it has been 7 months
For what it's worth, I though I'd share my personal experience using Mifepristone almost a month ago.. After having made the difficult choice to abort, I learned of this pill as an alternative option to having the traditional surgical procedure. Of course, as anyone would, I opted to try the pill because it seemed -less- painful and was something I could do in the privacy of my own home. After having been given the first pill, Mifepristone, at the doctors office on a Friday afternoon, I finished out my day at work with minimal side-effects at that point. The Mifepristone made me slightly sick to my stomach, but compared to the ongoing morning sickness I'd been going through, it wasn't so bad. (ha ha) Misoprostol was the next step, given to me in the form of 4 tablets, to be inserted vaginally myself at home. I was also given a full bottle of Vicodin, as well as a bottle of 800mg Ibuprophen for the pain the doctor anticipated I would encounter (this worried me a little). Late Satuday afternoon, I'd say around 4:30pm, scared to death not knowing what to expect once everything started, and knowing I couldn't turn back now, I inserted the tablets and took 1 Vicodin as directed. About 30 minutes from the time I did this I began to have cramping comparable to what you would feel during a typical menstrual period.. but not for long. Within an hour I had severe cramping.. I'd been warned the pain could equal that of actual child-birth contractions, and this must have been it. (I've never had a child, so I can only imagine) I was to the point of feeling like I would pass out if the pain didn't let up when I passed the first, and largest, portion of what -was- the pregnancy.. Many people will tell you that all you'll see is blood and clots, and it's unlikely anything will look like actual tissue.. but mine sure did.. Large masses of gray tissue were expelled for the following numerous hours. Somewhere close to midnight that night I felt relief enough to know it was over.. or so I thought. 4 days after this, while I -should- have been feeling more or less back to normal, I began to experience increasing pain in my abdomen. I called and spoke with my doctor about this, but felt as though she didn't seem concerned at all. No more than 2 hours after hanging up the phone I developed a fever that shot through the roof out of nowhere, and my heart began beating unbelieveably TOO fast. The "increasing pain" in my abdomen now had me laying in bed, hardly able to move. I called my mother who left work and rushed to my home to get me. I couldn't even get out of bed to let her in when she arrived I hurt so bad. I ended up in the emergency room that afternoon with a heartbeat of 143 beats/min.. (Check your own and then you'll see just how high 143 is) and a 103 temperature I ended up fighting to keep away for the next 4 days. To make a long story short, that first afternoon I spent over 8 hours in a treatment room in the emergency area before they got my vitals under control and discovered the cause of everything.. The abortion pill I used began attacking my own body in a sense, and began a horrendous infection in my uterus. In the end I spent a week in the hospital on 3 of the most potent anti-biotics available, as well as some heavy-duty narcotic pain killers, while specialists from the surrounding hospitals kept watch over me constantly. It's now been almost a month since then, and I still have to have blood work done, as well as ultrasounds every now and then to keep monitoring my recovery. I have constant sharp pains in my abdomen and have been told the scar tissue left over from the infection may now keep me from becoming pregnant in the future.. It's all so much to deal with, and honestly, I don't think I've come to terms with everything yet. It still feels like a bad dream. Regardless of my experience with the pill and side effects it caused me, I can still step back and look at the broad picture of things.. The majority of women who use this method have no problems, and for them, this is a good way to go. I really do think it's a better choice for most, than to have the surgical abortion.. BUT - be warned.. It's not "easy" using the pill, and there's no way to know how you're body will react to it. I never knew I'd go through the things I did because of it. This is definitely not something to be looked at as the "new contraceptive" either, as some are saying. It's so risky, putting your body through something like this. It could take a toll on you that will effect the rest of your life. Like me.. Will I ever be able to have kids after everything that happened? Every woman out there should begin by being aware of how to avoid an unwanted pregnancy from the start. Such as life happens, and most protection only offers 99.9% effectiveness, we forget that's NOT 100%.. If you still become pregnant and choose to abort, do your homework.. read about all possibilities, and all side effects for each.. then decide what's best for you. I think the pill is a great option.. but be careful, it's certainly not without it's flaws.
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If your not ready for a child, please use birth control.
I am currently only seventeen yrs old. I have a beautifull baby girl who is about to turn one. I could not imagine my life with out her in it. Three days ago i started what i thought was my period. Ha ha, yeah right. Yesterday my period just stopped. so i called my doctor and she told me to go get a pregnancy test to rule that out. I bought two. Both came back with two bright pink lines... i couldnt belive that i was seeing this agian. So i called my doctor back. they told me to come in. I am 5-6 weeks pregnant. I have no one to blame but my self. I feel extremely guilty for getting pregnant agian. Because this child isnt going to have the chance because of my stupid decison to not use birth control.. I would love to just say yeah, i can do it. But honestly i cant. I know i could give him/her all the love in the world.. but will i be able to give it everything financally... no. I am going to look into the abortion pill. Hopefully i can afford it and it all goes well! wish me luck........
good decision... i think when
good decision...
i think when people say they cant afford it or are not ready for it THEY ARE MAKING EXCUSES....
only reason i could understand an abortion is if i was raped... THATS IT other then that if your old enough to have sex then your old enought to care for a baby.... even if you cant care for it there are plenty of women out there that cannot have a child and would love one.. adoption is the right decision.. and im not sayin this because i believe in god or what not because im not a relgious person at all!!
in reply to your post, i
in reply to your post, i think that in this time people are free to have different views. If you don't agree with it keep your mouth zipped! Every situation is different and until you are actually in it you have no idea how you would react. we all make mistakes and it takes a strong person to choose to terminate their pregnancy, its now the easy option at all. i did it and it was one of the toughest most upsetting choice i made. i was not financially secure, emotionally mature enough ........ why would put a child in that situation and make a child pay for my stupidity!!!!!
You've got to be kidding me...
You think that an excuse like "Cant afford" another baby is not a good excuse? Let me tell you something. That is exactly why I am going to get the pill next week. I have a 7 year old, and a 2 year old. My husband is the only one working, as we have no child care, and he makes 8 dollars an hour. We are already getting foodstamps, because we cant afford to take care of ourselves as it is. So, why bring a child into the world, when you A. cant provide it with its basic needs, and B. because you would be taking away from the ones you already have. I have been on every birth control known to man, and am constantly changing them because my body has a hard time with them. I was on Depo for six months before I got pregnant with my first son, and have been on mirena for a year and a half when I got pregnant this time.
I trust women to make the right choices for the situations in their lives, and I think that you should too.
Believe me, if I thought for a second that we could make things work with another child then I would just keep it, but its not going to happen. Keep your pro choice opinions to yourself, if someone wants to hear them, they will let you know.
OH & the best part of all, i
OH & the best part of all, i got pregnant the second time
while i was on birthcontrol.
Another "really????"
Every woman has different reasons for her choice-whether it be due to financial difficulties, age, school, significant other, etc. etc. the reasons don't matter...and in fact, you don't have to explain yourself to anyone for any reason-YOUR REASON IS VALID...Obviously the comment made about "rape is one thing, claiming you cannot support the child financially is another..." has issues of her own if she believes a fetus made through an act of rape is less of a baby than a fetus made from love...know, oh dear one who originally posted here, that you need to be the best mommy you can be to the baby you have, and we applaud you. You are brave and your decision is the right one if you are making it for yourself and for your own reasons, whatever they may be. Disregard the nonsense :)
goodluck.
hey, i am 18 and im going through my second abortion.
I know exactly what you mean and make sure that abortion is TRULY what you want; or else the guilt will consume you.
I got the in-clinic abortion first about a year ago and i took my first pill yesterday; personally, i would chose the in clinic abortion.
it is quick, not so painful, and well..you just get it all done with.
so far the pill has made me so sick.... i have not gotten out of bed all day and i have only taken ONE!
i wish you the best of luck girl though and remember to stay strong.
Reply to comment Goodluck
I have read a lot of posts on here but when running across this one it kinda got to me (to be honest). First of all I would like to say that I am not here to judge anyone on there decisions. We are all human and make mistakes not one of us here on earth are perfect nor will we ever be. But we should learn from our mistakes (the first time), right..If you know that you have chosen abortion once because of your age, not ready financially or going through school, whatever the reason may be for you (there could be many reasons an individual is not ready for a child) why enable yourself to have to go through it twice? You know exactly what causes you to become this way. It's real simple to get protection. I know it's not 100% sure you will not become pregnant with protection because most of it says 99.9% effective. More-less what I am saying is, you got pregnant once and chose abortion. Why in the world would you go get pregnant again knowing you were not ready the 1st time? I was pregnant at the age of 17, yes I was scared to death and my BF @ the time did not have his self together BUT I knew the consequences of having sex. My mamma always said "you make your bed, you gotta lay in it". Now I am a 26 year old mother of 4 children. I believe that if we wait until everything in life is "perfect" to have a child then no one would ever have kid/kids. I myself do not agree with abortion (i do not have anything against anyone who choses it either) because I know there is other options out there for women. I hope that I have not sounded mean or like I am talking bad about anyone who has done this because I am not trying too. I do know that sometimes medically this has to be done (and that's fine) but when you do it once then turn around & do it again, I think it's wrong. I believe in life, I believe in God and I believe in the Bible. The bible says before you were in your mothers womb I knew you and I knew you by name. A child is not a mistake, not one person here on this earth was an accident! All, I am wanting to say is: There is other options ladies besides abortion. I know it is not easy to raise a child these days. If you have chose abortion as your option in the past, learn from that. God still loves you and will forgive you. TO the 18yr olds comment I am replying to, honey do not continue having sex if you are not going to woman up and take on responsibility. OK, I think I have said enough for the moment. Praying for you all!
i am 26 and wrote on here
i am 26 and wrote on here 1/30 the day before i was to insert the four pills in my cheeks. I took the pills on sunday, very scared after reading some of the feedback on this site. I took the pills and let them dissolve in my cheeks for 30 minutes which felt like forever because it had a nasty metal taste. I crawled in bed and waited for the worst to come. I took pain meds and anti-nausea meds a half hour to putting the pills in my cheeks. I felt light cramping within a half hour which did escalate to heavy period cramps but nothing unbearable and it didn't seem to last that long. The bleeding and passing of the tissue was very heavy, i got up to go to the bathroom every 15 minutes and just sat there on the toilet for 15 minutes at a time to let everything drain, which was gross but it eased the cramping. sunday went better than i expected and later that day i was moving around and eating just fine, I never got sick. the next few days i felt fine still some bleeding but nothing too heavy. i thought well that was about as easy as could be expected. four days later is when i had problems. thursday night i started experiencing some pretty painful cramps and a general not well feeling, i laid in bed all day. i was worried that something was wrong so the next morning i went down to the clinic and had another ultrasound, i had passed the pregnancy but they said there were still a lot of clots still in my uterus. they said it was a possibility that if they didn't come out i would need a vacuum procedure. GREAT. what i had been dreading(where i live if you need both you have to pay for both a total of $1100) the doctor prescribed me some pills to help my uterus contract. i was laid up in bed for the next two days and had to call in sick to work because it was painful to get up and move around and i had no energy. two days later i passed some more clots and since i have now started to feel better and bleeding has slowed. I go in next week to find out if everything has now emptied in my uterus. i hope so...i wasn't expecting to have issues days later as i hadn't read much of this happening.
I did it
I've been reading through a lot of these stories and it seems like there is a lot of negativity about it all so I felt I should share my story.
When I found out I was pregnanct I talked to my boyfriend who was completely supportive about the whole thing. I live with my father and his girlfriend both of whom dont really want me there. Plus I work half time, go to school, and dont have a car so life is hard. Friday I went to Planned Parenthood with my boyfriend. I was scared out of my mind but I knew that this was the best thing for me to do. I took the first pill at the clinic then I went to work. Nothing happened that first night. The next day (24 hours later) I took the four other pills. (I should add that I took antibiotics about 4 hours before this). About ten minutes after I felt some light cramping. About an hour later I threw up. The cramping was extremely painful, but I didn't take the pain medication I was given because I didn't think I could keep it down. The severe cramping was on and off for the most part. I started passing clots about 2-3 hours after the four pills. I could see the tissue and all that. But after that I was able to eat and things seem to be fine. I still have some bleeding but its not really heavy, more like a normal period. I still have some really light cramps but other than that I feel fine.
I hope that helps some of you out. It's not all horrible and yes you should be able to have children in the future with no effects. As far as the emotional part of the story, I can say that I'm really greatful that I have such a great boyfriend (who was actually willing to go into the ultrasound with me) that supported me and was truly concerned about how I felt and what was right for me. My dad doesn't know, even though his girlfriend is doing her best to tell him that I'm pregnant now.
One thing I did do before I got the abortion was pray that the child I coulnd't have would forgive me. I can't really say that I felt guilt but it seemed like the right thing to do. And now all I really feel is relief that its almost over, I just have to wait until I go to my follow up appointment. Wish me luck
How far along were you?
How far along were you?
From a teenagers prospective,
Im 16 years old and got pregnant (WHILE using protection) with my boyfriend of over a year. I don't agree with abortion as an easy way out, or a quick fix. However, for the sake of my health due to a high likelihood of complications that could possibly impair my ability to conceive in the future, I decided that the "abortion pill" was the best option as i was 6 weeks and 3 days pregnant. After taking the initial pill, I was seeking information about the experience, when i found this site. I'm glad i found this site after beginning the procedure, as these stories would have scared me out of it.
After taking the first pill, i was extremely anxious about the next step which would be the 4 pills in my cheeks.
Long story short, the time came and i put them in my mouth for 30 minutes. Then i waited for the diarrhea, vomitting, the urge to "rip my womb out" (as some posted on here), but these symptoms never came.
The absolute WORSE point of this event was about 3-4 hours after the cheek pills (i don't know exactly what to call them), when i had when felt like very strong period cramps. Nothing excruciating. This lasted about an hour, and then i began bleeding. Once i started bleeding, the cramps were instantly relieved.
Since then, i have had heavy bleeding and light cramping.
It is and was pleasant as i could have hoped for, not to say it's a breeze, but NOTHING like what i read on this site. I believe what i experienced is what most people experience.
I would recommend this procedure.
I hope this helps someone.
Thank you for your story.
Thank you for your story. Makes me feel a bit better about it. Im still undecided, but some of these stories make you think it is horrifying... maybe it was to them. Ive never done the pill.
Scerd
Hay im 17 years old, and 4 week pregnat, im scerd about what going to happen next but nose im not able to have the baby, i use protection and it split, im so worryd about telling any one and im the only one who nose :( and it horrbel i feel like cry every time i wack up of the fact i hvae to kill somtihink in seid me, Dose it hurn??... :(
Although it is a big decision it will be ok
While looking online for personal stories of people who have taken the abortion pill I came accross this website. Although I appreciate the personal stories, there seems to be something missing. Stories from adults who were confident in their decision to take the pill and who are happy they did.
I am 26 years old. My decision to end my pregnancy was financial. I can not provide a positive life for a child at this point in my life. Surgical abortion was not something I was interested in because it is so invasive. Taking the pill hurt, I did bleed a lot, have cramps, and passed tissue. None of these things are pretty. Nor are they easy to deal with. But if you are confident in your decision to have an abortion, then you deal with it.
The entire affair is really emotional. You will have good days after and bad days. Eventually life goes on. This experience will be one that I will carry with me for the rest of my life. But it was the right decision for me. And I am glad that I did it.
NOT A HORROR STORY JUST THE FACTS
Having read the comments on these pages and being scared shitless I thought I should write about my experience of medical abortion which although painfull is not a horror story.
****PLEASE READ IF YOU ARE CONSIDERING MEDICAL ABORTION***
I was unlucky I had a one night stand with this georgous guy I met in a club over christmas - a great experience at the time. I wasnt on any contraception at the time and the condom broke, with a cool head I got the morning after pill and took it approx 30hrs after I also went for an STI check about 7 days later. It was the party season and I'm a big party girl, and being Scottish I was drinking a hell of a lot over this period and I also took quite a lot of cocaine, ecstacy and smoked heavily.
I started to get hot fushes and feel nautious I knew that i was pregnant but still took three home tests to make sure. Bloody typical that after all that after all the precautions and partying this baby was still hanging in there.
Thankfully I live in a country where abortion is legal and free through the health service. I was 7weeks at my consultation and was offerd the choice of sugical(vacume)abortion or medical. I opted for medical as there are less risks involved to myself I would be 8weeks gone when it came to it.
On the thursday I went to the clinic and took 1 pill orally, this would stop a critical hormone needed for fetal development. On the friday I had sum browny disscharge.
I went back on the saturday where i had 4 more pills incerted into my vagina and 2 supositeries incerted into my anus (1 was pain killer and the other a antibiotic)- lovly!
I had to lie down for an hour to allow the pills to dissolve after which I was encouraged to move about as much as possible. This was easier said than done, I was violently sick and I was not aware that the amount of pain I was in was possible. After writhing about in tremendous pain for an hour the nurse injected a painkiller. I went from wanting to literaly rip out my womb to sitting on the bed wondering what all the fuss was about in about 3 minutes thanks to that injection.
All this time I was bleeding a hell of a lot and then about 3 hours after the pills went into my oriffices I felt a kind of 'pop' sensation. I went to the bed pan where i expelled a circular blob that sumwhat resembled a jellyfish about 4 centemeters in diameter. They tell you "not to look at it as some women find it unsettling" but to be honest how could you not?
As I looked down at this blob that had caused me so much pain I was mesmorised "All that for this tiny thing?"
I would like to mention that everything came out in whole for me and I could not distinguish the fetus (which would have been about the size of a kidney bean) it was the gory job of the nurse to take it away, dissect it and make sure the baby had came out. It had.
The pain killer wore off and the cramping started again for the placenta I imagine. It was not as sore as before and not as constant, probably pain bursts of 5 minuites every 10 - 15 mins. After monitoring my bleeding for an hour (still a lot of blood) the nurse said i could go home. She gave me 4 antibiotic tablets to take - I vomited them up so she gave me 4 to take home and take the next morning.
My friend picked me up and drove me home the cramps eventually subsided after 10 hrs the heavy bleeding contiued for about 2weeks and thankfully I did not get an infection. The placenta did come out 5days afterwards - some small cramps then a small 'pop'and there it was about 2cm by 1cm. A week later my STI results all came back cear.
I have no reigious beliefs and I was 22 years old when I "killed my baby" because lets face it thats what I did. It takes a selfish person to abort a child and although I never once thought about keeping it and becoming a mother I know it is something I shall have to live with for the rest of my life. They way I see it - "fuck it shit will happen to you throughout your life some great and some terrible and somtimes you'll have to be selfish in the decisions you make". One day I will have kids but until then I will live a great life for me.
Thats my story I hope you find it useful
Iv just read your story and
Iv just read your story and it sounds so similar to mine, i had the 1 orall pill on the 18th of feb and then went to hospital on the 20th for the 4 other pills to be inserted. the pain was excrutiating and it seemed like forever untill it went. i was vommiting mainly just acid as i couldnt keep any food down :/. i was in the hospital for nearly 8 hours and i bled quite a bit but the nurse thought that i hadnt passed the fetus bu she let me go home. I bled for the next four days but nothing heavy but on the fifth day i got hurrendoes cramps and bleeding reaaly heavily with clots. its been another two days and the cramps and bleeding have worstened, is thiss what happened to you? if so please tell me how long it goess on for cos im litterally going out of my mind thinking that im goingg to die or something :(
x
girl, your story sounds
girl, your story sounds intense & i feel ya completly.
i am 18, living in the USA & i am also a HUGE partier.
i had been drinking, doing coke and smoking ciggs regularly.
i never thought a baby would survive through that; and even if he did...
it would not be a very healthy baby.
i found out i was pregnant & i was in shock.
i have the world's best boyfriend who was going to support me no matter what choice i made, but i never once wanted to keep it.
i have had a surgical abortion about a year ago and it was not bad at all.
but anyways, as soon as i found out i was pregno, i started drinking more, doing even more coke, not eating, and smoking even more.
I also kept on taking my birth control, taking my prescrived medications: aderall, fluoxetine, and omapresole.
i thought; there is no way this kid is going to live for longer than a week.
but it did, and i found myself back at planned parenthood, sitting in the same waiting room were i was a year ago.
i am going to take my 4 pills tomorrow. wish me luck.
ps- i feel so guilty for doing all this, i know what i am doing is wrong and what i put that poor kid through is cruel and unusual punishment for no reason. i am a selfish person; i pray to god everyday to forgive me..
Thank you!!!
Hello,
I read one story.. see above, given the phrasing, it seems like she is english which is quite interesting given the fact, I have been on some of these "support" sites and find the stories that turn out in a good way, well.. nothing IS GOOD about vomiting and bleeding. I meant that the abortion came out to be complete. A lot of these woman who do not want to remain anonymous are from Europe. Could it be that the "magnitude or strength" is greater than the ones here in the states? I am so terrified right now guys. I go in tomorrow to take the pill. These stories are scaring the shit out of me.. I am gravitating to the ones that are "good outcomes"
Anyway, I have two beautiful daughters (5 and 23 months). My hubby is incredibly supportive. I am a musician and after many LONG years, I have finally gotten back to my old self. dropped ALL my baby weight, actually, I am more fit than I have been since I was 25. I am down to my pre baby weight and then some.. My career is finally taking off again, We stand to make some very good money this year because we have been so VERY BROKE and so I feel this year was the year that we were going to get back on our feet. I am almost 40, I have had 2 HORRIFIC C sections (which by the way, I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy). I almost died the second time because they couldn't stop my uterus from contracting. I began to notice my breathing was heavy and SLOW, I told my husband this while literally looking at my body part down below where the OB had just suctioned my daughters head out of me. All I know is that they gave me "special K".. yes, no LIE.. it's a RAVE drug.. an animal tranquilizer which made me TRIP MY BRAINS OUT.. My hubby turned into Alice and Wonderland and then starting growing pink helmets on his head. No, I have NEVER taken acid in my life but I can imagine that this what might be a "good trip".. to me, it was the most TERRIFYING and out of control feeling I have ever felt. I almost felt like this might be the point where I go INSANE. Why, you ask... They gave this to me to put me out because I was so overwhelmed and the fact, that I started to decline in my breathing was more than I could handle.. WHAT THEY DIDN'T do was to give me VERSED which was to help so I wouldn't remember my experience.. BUT I DID...like it was yesterday. I CANNOT relive that moment again, nor do I want to experience the physical pain of another c section. Believe me, I FOUGHT tooth and nail to have a natural birth with my second, in fact, I had seen the "business of born" by Rickie Lake.. PLEASE.. SEE THIS MOVIE.. It will change your life and the way you see your body.. Anyway, let's get to the point of my story. My husband and I have not been in a good place for a very long time.. struggling financially, emotionally and never have time to spend with each other anymore so we both decided to go see our individual therapists.. things seem like they are getting a little better but we are still NOT in the place where we want to be.. It was one night of "WHAM BAM THANK YOU MAM".. if you get my drift.. 3 AM in the morning. kinda like going to the bathroom.. mechanical and for me, I should have been a blow up doll. I know he was trying to " be with me" but I SHOULD HAVE NOT HAD SEX. I didn't want it, I had a lot of resentment and anger and I am KICKING myself for giving in. At the time, I thought it would help. we didn't use any protection just "the method".. I thought I had just finished my period and when he went to work the next day, I woke up in a PANIC checked my menstrual calendar and freaked out when I discovered it has been two weeks to the day. The WORST time to have sex. I didn't really notice anything until a week ago I was constipated and eating everything in sight. We have had sex before and used the "pull out thing" a number of times.. I always get my period. I am not a lush but I enjoy cocktails or wine every night.. my ritual (2 drinks at the most), I take adderall for my adult ADD *which yes,, I have been diagnosed all my life* like I said, I am almost 40.. I am under a lot of stress... I know HOW you get pregnant DUH, it's just that I can't believe with all that I do and what I put in my body, I still got pregnant. This will be my FIFTH time with my husband..I have also had 2 miscarriages before I had my first and then right after she was born.. The thing was, I actually WANTED another baby then, right now, just CAN'T and I feel it in the core of my soul!
I am so SCARED to do this tomorrow.. can anyone give me GOOD SOUND ADVICE! I have told my husband it's his turn.. He is getting a vasectomy and I will not TOUCH him until he does.. I am going like a NUN bout this.. I can actually look at my husband and get knocked up.. I no longer will be self sabotaging and careless.. It's NOT WORTH IT!!!!
Thanks
I also wanted to mention that
I also wanted to mention that after reading a bunch of these stories on here and in response to your "A lot of these woman who do not want to remain anonymous are from Europe. Could it be that the "magnitude or strength" is greater than the ones here in the states?" it seems that the posts from these girls have a lot of / "bad grammar" and are from other countries, and i'm thinking that these stories are made up as they all seem to have some sort of horrifying experience in them. they sound very untrue...
I had a medical abortion 2 yrs. ago..now pregnant.
I had a medical abortion when I was 22 in November of 2007. I'm 24 now, and 5 weeks pregnant and will have the baby. Can anyone share their experience of conceiving after previously having a medical abortion? I would like to know of any complications or effects as I am very nervous that something will go wrong with this pregnancy. Perhaps it's my guilt and emotional trauma from the medical abortion, but I just can't stop thinking about it. Someone please give me their feedback. It would be greatly appreciated!
hi..
I just read your post and im in the same sittuation i wonder how r u and if everything is ok.. i am currently pregnant and i had and abortion 7 months ago pls help
I took the pill last week
After reading all these stories I feel compelled to share mine...I went to parent plannedhood on a friday. On this day I took the first dosage. The next day, I was instructed to start taking antibiotics (which were prescribed) to eradicate the risk of infection. The next day, Sunday, I inserted the four pills in my mouth (between my gums and cheeks) as instructed. About fifteen minutes later after taking the second pair of pills, I began to feel light cramping. I didn't take any pain pills before this. Ten minutes later, the cramping worsen. Although I had never had a baby before, I imagined it felt like actual labor pains. The pains occurred every 7-10 secs. They were horribly. I continued to go to the bathroom thinking that the miscarriage would occur....IT didn't. I finally took some pain medication after about 10 minutes of pain. The medication begain to work after about 15 more minutes of horrible cramps. When the pain stopped I put on a pad and laid around on the couch. I went to sleep that night and woke with a heavy blood flow. While on the toilet, I felt the miscarriage take place. I must admit I was feeling relief and guilt simultaneously. The next day I went to work, and suddenly I experienced hot flashes, I began to sweat and felt like I was about to pass out. This feeling lasting about 15 minutes. Then I was fine. I am still bleeding, medium flow, without cramps or nausea. Its been a week today since I've taken the pills. I go for my follow up next week. Hopefully everything will be okay. I really am sick of bleeding, and it smells.
I am 26 and decided to go
I am 26 and decided to go with the medical abortion. I've never been pregnant before and took the first pill yesterday at exactly 6 weeks along. I've had minimal side effects from the first pill but have had noticeable loss of appetite and fatigue, some nausea as well. I will be taking the second dose tomorrow two pills in between my cheeks and gums. I am very nervous and scared after reading some of these stories as to what will happen tomorrow. Emotionally it has been tough..crying off and on all day. I will let you know how tomorrow goes.
Aren't you supposed to put 4
Aren't you supposed to put 4 pills?
Two on each side of your cheeks?
only 17 with two kids
iam 17
i jux had my bbygrl 6 weeks aqo nd i had sex one week ago nd we didnt use a condo now iam worried i coulb be preqnant when my little boy is 1 nd my bbygrl is 1month i reaally dnt wanna another wut should i doo????
USE PROTECTION!!! or take the
USE PROTECTION!!! or take the planB pill next time
mistakes happen.....do whats
mistakes happen.....do whats best for YOU!
I'm at a lost 4 words I know
I'm at a lost 4 words I know the LORD does'nt give us any more than we can handle BUT.....I'm 28 with 5 kids 2 of which r twins 1yr a son3 a daughter9 an a son10 my 10 an 9 year old don't live with me an I'm catching it with my 3 that r here now today i find out I'm expecting again i honestly can't do it.my last 3 have the same father an this baby's dad also he's here with us an we've been 2gether 4 8 yrs but having another baby i just can't do oh yeah 1 abortion right before our 3 yrs old son was born.. so i understand u completly just hang in there sweety it will b okay
i m not a doctor. but i think
i m not a doctor. but i think its not possible to get pregnent after just 6 week of delivery.
but as i said i m not doctor.........
I just did mine
Hello,
I just did mine on monday and honestly it was a horriable experience. I am a mother of four children and I have had a surgical termination befor but I would NEVER recommend this pill to anyone. I was able to deal with the pain but that could be becuase i already had four children but the thing that mentally distrubed me is what i saw my baby!!! Everyone describes what they saw as a piece of skin but mine was very visiable. It was very scary and very emotional over all becuase honestly i just expeceted to see skin and blod clots but I seen the egg sack as clear as could be with my baby inside it was about the size of a walnut. I could not have felt more guilt at that point!! I have been extremely emotional about the whole thing and i would never recommend it to anyone. I had a very hard time with disposing of it i ended up buying a tree and planting my baby with it. I was only six weeks but I was able to see hands and fingers and the whole works. So i could not just throw it away. I feel horiable for my decision and some may think i am crazy that i just did not throw it in the toliet and flush but trush me i would have never thought i would have seen what i seen only in pictures. If anyone is considering this please be prepared to see more then what the videos and drs say you are going to see. I was so shock when i see it in my under wear. I am still bleeding and experiencing some cramping also.
Just because you had a "BAD"
Just because you had a "BAD" experience during your abortion, or saw the "FETUS"....something you did not wanna see.....is no reason to discourage its use. You were informed of the risks BEFORE taking the abortion pill....dont blame the procedure for your guilt.
this is a totally bareable method of termination.dont be scared!
i think that there are pros and cons to both alternatives to terminating a pregnancy. first and foremost before i had taken the pill i had read on google about what people blogged and it did scare the living shit out of me to the point that i could not let myself read anymore. For whatever its worth every woman is different but for me, this procedure was the right one. I took the first pills-felt nothing. waited for my amazing boyfriend (who is nothing more but supportive) to get home from work around 8pm. i let the pills disolve in my cheeks for 30 mins and immediatly went in to intense cramping, without a doubt intense. Its contracting pains for about 4-6 hours. however you can totally live through it and its not the worst thing ive ever done. it was worth it and if i had to do it again , i would still choose the same method. some people say its the WORST thing in the world but its really not. Im someone who frequently experiences stomach pains that are like contractions already when im trying to go the bathroom, and the pain was like that except this lasted longer. if you can just be strong for those few hours, youl then fall asleep and wake up and its all over. the procedure is whats scary (for me). taking the pill is obviously not a joyous activity, but its pain you will get through and its certainly not the worst thing in the entire world. pain is a part of life, there are many things that hurt far worse than these pills. bottom line, the problem has its solution and then you can get on with your life, which is the whole point anyways. my advice to anyone taking this pill-close your computer and stop reading horror stories on the internet. they wouldnt be despensing thousands of these pills every single day to thousands of women if it was unbareable. just sayin
i think that there are pros
i think that there are pros and cons to both alternatives to terminating a pregnancy. first and foremost before i had taken the pill i had read on google about what people blogged and it did scare the living shit out of me to the point that i could not let myself read anymore. For whatever its worth every woman is different but for me, this procedure was the right one. I took the first pills-felt nothing. waited for my amazing boyfriend (who is nothing more but supportive) to get home from work around 8pm. i let the pills disolve in my cheeks for 30 mins and immediatly went in to intense cramping, without a doubt intense. Its contracting pains for about 4-6 hours. however you can totally live through it and its not the worst thing ive ever done. it was worth it and if i had to do it again , i would still choose the same method. some people say its the WORST thing in the world but its really not. Im someone who frequently experiences stomach pains that are like contractions already when im trying to go the bathroom, and the pain was like that except this lasted longer. if you can just be strong for those few hours, youl then fall asleep and wake up and its all over. the procedure is whats scary (for me). taking the pill is obviously not a joyous activity, but its pain you will get through and its certainly not the worst thing in the entire world. pain is a part of life, there are many things that hurt far worse than these pills. bottom line, the problem has its solution and then you can get on with your life, which is the whole point anyways. my advice to anyone taking this pill-close your computer and stop reading horror stories on the internet. they wouldnt be despensing thousands of these pills every single day to thousands of women if it was unbareable. just sayin
abortion
Hi the same thing happened to me i took the firt pill on tue and went in hospital all day yest i was 7 weeks and i had not prepared myself for what i saw i have had a surgical abortion 18yrs ago and that really upset me so after 2 children i decided this was not the right time 4 another child and opted for the pill thinking it would be less stressfull its not ! i was fine where pain was concened and bleeding was heavy still bleeding but its bearable but i can till remember the funny feeling of feeling something then when i went to toilet i saw a small fleshy figure i thought it cant be as i only had the tablets put in a hour a half before it was the baby it was only small but you could sort of tell that it was a baby i was sure i did not want another and i still dont think i do but i feel so guilty i feel like im a muderer for what i have done
thnks 4 ur honesty i was
thnks 4 ur honesty i was considering the pill because i 2 have a the abortion surgery an did'nt want to go through that again but i don't think i can deal with actually seeing my baby like that thanks alot u have changed my mind 4 sure
I had this done in Nov. of
I had this done in Nov. of 2009 and I also would never recommend this to anyone. Ive never been one to believe in abortions and I turned around and made the foolish decision to have one. I battle with it a whole lot and if I dont keep praying I feel like ill lose my mind. This is definitely a life changing decision and it hurts me to my heart. Ive had dreams about my baby and I feel so much guilt, I feel like I have a void in my life. I pray that you make the right decision and think the whole situation through and not only for the moment because if you dont you'll end up just like me. Stand your grounds and God Bless...
ps. when I passed my baby I wanted to do the same thing and thats bury it. I had a very hard time disposing it....
help!!!
i got my period last Dec.15, 2009 and up to now i still don't have my period. Pls. tell me what to do... I have a 5 yrs old son and a 9 months old daughter. I live here in Philippines and we are planning to migrate in canada, all our passport are ok, we were just waiting for the visa. pls. help!!!by the way iam already 27 yrs. old.
My experience...
After reading through a lot of these comments, I felt compelled to share the experience I had with medical abortion about three and a half years ago.
First, I have to say that I did not want to have an abortion. The father pressured me to have the abortion. I have been haunted by this decision ever since ... as has he I might add (we have since gotten married and this has created a huge strain on our relationship). I am in no way trying to tell anyone not to have an abortion, but I would implore anyone who is considering an abortion to really think about what they want to do and not to let anybody else pressure them one way or the other.
In terms of the actual experience, mine was pretty terrible from start to finish. Going to the clinic was extremely upsetting and demoralizing. The center was completely packed and it was clear that the "medical professionals" who worked there really could not care less about the patients - it seemed to be a complete money making machine - get in as many people as they could with the least amount of time and care devoted to the patients as possible. The only person who really spoke to me was the woman in charge of billing. I had to wait hours on end to finally go into a room where I was supposedly counseled with a group of about 15 other women, but really we were just given the first pill to take in front of the representative and be sent on our way. The only positive thing I can say about the center was that there were no protestors outside - which would have been awful and I feel very thankful about that.
After taking the first pill, I didn't feel anything physically. The next day I inserted the Misoprostol vaginally as directed. I also took Vicodin that I was given for the pain. (As an aside, apparently Vicodin does not do anything for me. If you are going to do this, I would highly recommend having some OTC pain relievers handy as well in case you end up being in the same boat.) It took some time for the Misoprostol to kick in. Once it did, it was excruciating. I was vomiting, had diarrhea and the cramping was incredibly intense. I spent the next several hours alternating between sitting on the toilet and laying on the floor in absolute agony. After the largest of the clots passed, I felt significantly better. By the next day, I felt mostly back to normal physically except that I had fairly heavy bleeding for approximately six weeks. I have not had any kind of long-term physical issues as a result of the medical abortion. However, the situation was extremely traumatizing mentally.
I know one other person who has told me that she has undergone a medical abortion and she also experienced a very high level of pain from the Misoprostol. I feel frustrated that some people who have posted on here seem to think that these are made-up, agenda-pushing horror stories. I assure you that a lot of these stories ring very true to me. I am glad that many other women who have posted here have not had such a terrible experience with the Misoprostol, but I think it is important that people who are considering the medical abortion option are aware that there are a wide-range of experiences that people have with this drug and are prepared for what can happen. If I were to be in a situation where I was to have an abortion again, based on my personal experience with Misoprostol, I would choose the surgical option.
When I was making the choice three and a half years ago, I had thought that medical abortion would be less traumatizing for me because it seemed more natural and I thought I could mentally trick myself into thinking that I had had a miscarriage. This was very naive of me and I wish that I had realized what I was getting myself into. I think it is great this site exists because it is really an excellent source of information. After going through what I did, I felt extremely misled by the information I received from Planned Parenthood and other similar sources. I would say that the agenda-pushing seems to go both ways, because I did not read anything from these sources that gave me any kind of realistic picture of the kind of pain I ended up enduring. Perhaps the information currently available from such sources is more representative of what women actually experience but what I read back then did not give me any idea of what lay ahead for me.
Some unsolicited advice to those who will decide to get a medical abortion: 1) I would definitely have someone in the house with you. If you end up having an easy time of it, I still think it would be nice to have the moral support and if it ends up being not so easy, you will want the help. 2) I would have two heating pads handy for your stomach and your back. This is the only thing that provided me any degree of relief.
Best of luck to all the ladies out there who are faced with making some very tough decisions.... I really feel for all of you.
Your story is so similar to
Your story is so similar to mine. I'm sorry you had to go through it, but I'm glad that I'm not alone.
I too felt the clinic had no regard to my wellbeing, except to get the $400 bucks out of my pocket and get me on my way. There were a ton girls all in different stages of the process and no one had any privacy. The decision to end my pregnancy was a very hard thing to do and I wasn't happy about the group service the clinic seemed to give. Also, they were in such a rush to get me in and out, they forgot to take my blood. They gave me a folder with a ton of papers to sign and one had someone elses name already signed to it. They lost it out of her file. when I told the nurse, she said, "Oh thats where it was....."
I'm glad that the clinic was there, because I could not have had a baby at this time, however I believe that there needs to be more oversight into the way patients are treated. My mechanic is more compassionate than the clinic workers.
Also, I was not given much information about the difference between the pill and the surgery. Had I known all of the side effects, I would have chosen the surgery. I was so scared when I found out I was pregnant and taking a pill seemed so quick and easy. I wish I had done my homework first.
help please
Hi. I'm 19 years old and i am having the same thing happen to me. my father is pushing for me to have this done. to be honest i am terrified. is there anything that i should expect or know going into this. please, my mother past away years ago and i really have no one to talk to about this, because most of my friends wont understand what im going thru or what i have to do. i found out about a week ago and my operation is for the 12th of feb. I'm very emotional already and in pain in my lower back and my stomach. i dont know if this is normal or not, as to i cant speak to anyone about it. im just so lost i dont know what to do, every time i think about what im going to do i break down and cry. please just anything, advise to help i would very much love.
thank you for your time
Kira
Hi, Kira... I am 26 yrs old
Hi, Kira... I am 26 yrs old and I had this done in Novenber of 2009. I want to start this off by saying that your grown now baby, please make your decision based off of your feelings and not your dads because hes not the one thats gonna be feeling any pain physically nor emotionally... Its a very hurtful thing and I wouldnt suggest it to anyone. All I could do is continue to pray to get me through this because I sometimes feel like ill lose my mind. Pray on it and let God lead you, I made a very STUPID decision and Im feeling every bit of it... I pray that you make the right decision and that everything turns out fine for you... God Bless and stay strong
I took the pill too
Hi kira sorry about ur mom I'm 27 I've got to children and I feel pregnant this Christmas I went to my nearest clinc and had the two tablets I was on five weeks gone I was so scared about this as I have never done this b4 all I can say is it is painfull and a nasty thing to go through it's been 3 days now the baby came away from me this morning? If ur sure u want this done make sure ur 100 percent certain? How far gone r u? R u aving the tablet or the operation take care and dnt be scared xx
Thank you
Hello. I was so surprised to see that both of you had posted something on my behalf. Sadly this friday I went to the clinic and took the first pill. Today around 3 30 I took the other 4 pills on my mouth an took the pain Mesa they gave me to subdo the pain. Eveything was fine, kinda bad cramps so I wnt into the shower around 6 having little bleeding. In the shower I past two clots, and that's about all. Then out of now where I had the worst cramps I think I've ever had. I sat on the tolite screaming, mostly to help destracted my mind from the pain I was going thru. After 45 mins to an hour of the pain i threw up twice, mostly water. After 20 mins I felt fine, just very tired. Now it 8 41 and I still haven't bleed very much. Not only do I think I have to go thru this pain, now I think I might have to have an inclinc abortion, even if I wanted to keep this child I couldn't no because of the side effects. Now I'm just tired and kinda sore, still not alot of bleeding. : ( part of me wishes I would have said no, butoney wise, it's for the better. I was 8 weeks 5 days today and I think when or if I pass this I will see what it looks like. I think that's going to be the hardest part.
regrets
i had an abortion about a year and a half ago....and ive been trying to get pregnant for bout 6 months now and stil havent gotten pregnant.....can i still become pregnant
Give up caffeine and do it
Give up caffeine and do it slowly. That means tea too for me. Do yoga and visualize yourself pregnant after. Yoga will reduce stress in your body and make it easier for your body to become pregnant. Eat Brussels sprouts, beets carrots, acai berry... Organic. Organic good lean meats and vegetables like broccoli, cauliflower, cabbage. Avoid processed foods and sleep 8 hours a day.
i just found out i am
i just found out i am pregnant and this is what i have been researching im not willing to do the abortion is i can not conceive in the future
still pregnant???
hi im 28 yrs old, i got my abortion on my 4 weeks pregnant,i asked the help of some1 who is really known for abortion.but she is not a professional dr cause i i stay here in muslim country who is not allowed to get pregnant...she insert 1 on my 2 cheeks, and after that i dont feel something pain or cramping in my stomach, but i got bleeding just for that night the next morning i dont have blood, but its like a brownish and smelly comes out for almost 3 days.but after that one night i feel cramping in my stomach, as in to much pain, i found out that im bleeding for almost 4 days but not that heavy...so after 1 month i still dont have my period, and i test and it positive... does it means that im still pregnant? but i dont feel any symtoms...pls if ever some1 experienced this also let me know?so i know what to do...i leaving here in a country that u will b jailed if they knew your pregnant...no where to ask...pls help me...
Are you okay? I don't know
Are you okay? I don't know which pill you took but the way it works here in the US, You take one pill at the doctor's office and then they give you four pills to take home and you are then supposed to place two pills on each side of your cheeks. You only took one pill, that concerns me. Especially if your tests are saying positive. Can you see a doctor without terrible consequences? My prayers are with you.
i feel u.
oh my GOd THE SAME thing happened to me!! i took it like 2 days ago! and i was bleeding only for that night!. im still super worried. i will call my doctor and let you know what can you do.