Reflection on Mairs re: Balanced Relationships
By ErasmusOctober 18, 2016 - 14:21

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"A primitive race, transported into an Anglo Saxon environment and held in subjugection to that fundamentally alien influence, was bound to undergo the soul stirring experiences which always find their expression in great art"
- Albert Barnes
At first, I was confused by the style that stating a story by different views because I always mixed the charaters together. But before Billy decided to "getting mother's body", I managed to figure out the relationships between characters. The way she wrote this story actually makes the image of each character more clear because we can both know how one person in the novel thinks and how others in the novel think about that person. And here's my questions (I haven't finish reading this novel): Why does Billy Beede dislike her mother that much that she even isn't willing to call her mom? Why does Parks mention the people that Billy encountered on the way that she came to "marry" Snipes, especially the women named Myrna Carter who seemed to lose hope about love?
I distaste reading novels but this one, ‘Getting Mother’s Body’, is a different piece altogether. I must admit it is a page-turner and engrossing. Suzan-Lori Parks’ writing style is incredible, chatty, emphatic, well-turned and articulate. A few questions for her, what corrupted Billy Beede’s decision to abort? Why does she portray Dill Smiles’ homosexuality in the ‘60s yet it wasn’t legal?
What I found most interesting about "Waist High in the World" was Mair's insistence at the beginning throughout the book that it isn't meant to be "feel-good" (and it certainly isn't), yet how she sort of has the "feel-good" attitude. She's making the best of what she has. Maybe that's less feel-good and more survival. She explains the real challenges she faces, but she also explains how she has adapted to deal with these challenges to continue living. I guess I just appreciate the honesty of the book.
This is a book that I just wanted to read from cover to cover in one sitting. Since Susan-Lori Parks gives the characters each their own chapter the reader gets to hear their own perspective. It gives the reader an advantage over the other characters, because the reader sees what exactly is on the character's mind. This also creates more suspense because the reader knows the Dill Smiles took the jewerly that Billy goes to search for for makes it much more interesting. Additionally, the fact the Billy and other characters depend on the money from the jewerly makes me more intriguied to keep on reading to find out how this conflict will play out. I feel more connected with the characters since it is so first person it keeps me more interested throughout the novel.
I really enjoyed reading this novel because of the complex characters. Every time I thought that I understood one of them, I would read from someone else's persepctive on them or read something they did which made me re-evaluate my thoughts on them. I loved reading from the different perspectives because it kept the book interesting and flowing. They are all such fascinating characters that it was nice to hear all of their voices because it helped me learn more about them. A question I had initially was about the treasure buried with Billy's mother. Because they are going on such a large trip, I thought, only to be dissapointed because early on, Smiles confesses to having broken her promise to Willa Mae and not buried her with the treasure.
I would like to take a guess about the plot development when I have done the first few chapters. This story was not a exception.
But I failed on the very first step- to start my guess on it. Snipe said he would marry Billy on Friday, and then the author put a lot ink to elaborate the process how Billy and her family prepare for wedding. There was no hint, at least for me, that Snipe is married and Billy wanted to abort the baby so she needed money. Before that point, I was in confusion about why the Beedes would like to bother a passed relative.