October 6, 2014 - 17:28
I have a similar story as Rose. But, my scrutiny for wanting to play with the boys didn't only come from my peers but from my family. I was always called a tomboy or told that I was too messy, and sometimes even told that no boy was going to want to date a rough girl like me. Therefore, I was hindered from playing how I wanted to play. Due to these play limitations based on gender, I attribute much of my shyness. When I see my younger brother who is told everyday to go outside and play with his friends, while I was encouraged to stay inside and play with dolls, I compare myself to him in a lot of different ways. I compare our adaptabilty level, how easy it is for the both of us to make friends, and how likeable we are. In 2 out of 3 of these areas I see he flourishes more than I do. The limitations that were placed upon me just because I am a female have stunted my social growth and skills in some way.