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Women Living Well: Mind and Body Connection Forum |
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introduction Name: Amy Campbe Date: 2004-03-17 13:55:09 Link to this Comment: 8854 |
2. How do you define "Living Well" What are some of the obstacles that prevent you from reaching your "living well' state and what are things that suppport your efforts? How as a community, can we better support 'living well' as a central part of the campus culture?
Name: Natalie Date: 2004-03-21 13:07:22 Link to this Comment: 8924 |
Name: Elsa Marve Date: 2004-03-21 23:20:30 Link to this Comment: 8932 |
I guess that my first reaction to "living well" is that it means being healthy and taking care of yourself. Taking that further, I think that there are many different things that contribute to living well; how you eat, how well rested you are, whether or not your happy, and being fit. I don't think that I live well while I'm at Bryn Mawr, but I do think I live pretty well while I'm at home. Here at school, I have bad sleeping habits, I only eat carbs and deserts (and not many vegetables or proteins), I'm always stressed out, I don't have much time, I'm not always happy, and I don't get that much exercise because I don't make time for it or don't think that I have enough time. My wellness comes last while I'm at school, because there's always something to do that gets priority over taking care of myself. I don't think I do that much to live well (at least, not successfully).
I don't know what we can do to better support living well. I think a lot of people here are too distracted by other things going on in their lives to make a commitment to living well. I think having a PE class like this might help, but it's tough to get the message to a lot of Mawrters that there are things besides work that are important. Besides, I feel like there are already a lot of things in place to make sure that Mawrters are living well such as the health center, counseling services, the deans, PE classes, workshops about stress, eating disorders, and so on (and some of them, PE for example, are mandatory). The one thing that I think could stand improvement is our food. I wish that we had better fruits and vegetables in the dining halls.
Sorry that this post is kinda long...
2nd response Name: Natalie Date: 2004-03-24 11:06:29 Link to this Comment: 8980 |
living well Name: Jessica Date: 2004-03-24 11:23:13 Link to this Comment: 8981 |
To me, living well means feeling healthy in mind, body, and spirit. Besides the obvious things like fitness and a balanced diet, I also consider emotional well-being and healthy relationships as a part of living well. I also feel that a sense of purpose in the world is important to living well. That might sound a little corny, but I do think that it's important for everyone to feel like their lives mean something in the larger sphere.
SOme obstacles, particularly in this community, involve academic and extracurricular pressure. It is so, so difficult for students to feel like they can take a moment for themselves or for their friendships and not feel guilty about it. I feel that there is a sense of competition on this campus as to who works the most on their academics.
Rather than focusing on this competition, I think that we should all encourage one another to chill out, take it easy every once in a while, rather than just talking about how much work we have.
Name: Faye McGra Date: 2004-03-28 22:21:14 Link to this Comment: 9044 |
For me, living well is all about sleep - the more I have of it, the better I feel. Unfortunately, sleep is the one luxury that I have to forgo in my pursuit of everything else in my life, like class and work. Of course, my mattress calls to me nightly, so I can't really ignore sleep for to long.Additionally, I think that being content with what I have goes a long way towards the goal of living well. I mean, can you really say that you are living well, when you have a buring desire to have something or do something? I think that would drive me nuts - a state far from living well.
Hmmm, as for the community? I think that's a toughie . . . In my view, the culture of BMC promotes a very ambitious, go-getting attitude. Sleep is often viewed as the enemy, since it takes away from work time. The if-I-don't-sleep-I-can-finish-this-paper-in-time-for-class mentality hurts us all. The prevailing belief about the serious need for sleep needs to change, and then we can all live well.
Name: Date: 2004-03-30 01:04:37 Link to this Comment: 9070 |
I think that living well is an act of balancing future goals with current enjoyment. This applies to all areas of our lives here, from academics to our physical health. We make sacrifices and efforts in our academic lives in the current moment so that we can have the benefit of cultural capital and a degree later on. At the same time, to be "living well" it seems we must also be enjoying the time we spend here now, although it is an investment for our future. Likewise, our health in the future is dependent on what we do now, but that doesn't mean we spend all of our time obsessing about how to keep the body in the best health. we use it ( and misuse it) in ways that we enjoy.
Personally, the biggest barrier to my own goal of living well is an overloaded off-campus work schedule at a job that I find stressful but occasionally rewarding. The amount of time I invest there does not seem to be in sync with the rest of my life.
Name: F. McGrath Date: 2004-03-31 06:29:35 Link to this Comment: 9100 |
Additionally, I do think that living well is the balance of current pain and future enjoyment and its converse - future pain balanced against current enjoyment. Sometimes, one side of this see-saw battle to "live well" wins out and we will have either a really good day or a really bad one.
Name: Quinn Fiel Date: 2004-03-31 07:57:36 Link to this Comment: 9101 |
Week 2 Balance Name: Amy Campbe Date: 2004-04-02 12:59:00 Link to this Comment: 9131 |
Name: Elsa Date: 2004-04-05 00:21:10 Link to this Comment: 9158 |
As for a cultural shift, I have any specific advice. I guess that on a day-to-day basis, the suggestion of having personal time where you're just doing something for yourself is a very good one. Another thing that I think could promote positive emotional balance (and works for me) is making sure to get out of the bi-co at least once a week, even if it's only to go into Bryn Mawr town, or the city. I think that putting some distance between school and yourself is important, especially since we do everything on this campus, which makes it hard to stop thinking about school and workload.
Name: Kat McCorm Date: 2004-04-05 13:49:51 Link to this Comment: 9170 |
I think one thing that I do on campus to encourage balance in both my life and the lives of my friends is eat long dinners together. We take time from our busy schedules to nourish ourselves, and fill each other in on our days. For me, this gives a feeling that there is something more to what we do here than just our studies, and we can take long oppurtunites to relaxa nd be social and process our days.
positive emotional state Name: Faye McGra Date: 2004-04-05 16:30:09 Link to this Comment: 9174 |
Also, I try to laugh as much as possible. Most of my movies are comedies - I think that its a great way to unwind and put yourself in a positive frame of mind.
As for benefits? I feel more relaxed and able to get work done after I laugh. I don't hold stress inside because I let it out. Those are the biggest benefits for me.
Name: Alea Khan Date: 2004-04-05 22:54:48 Link to this Comment: 9185 |
RE: Living Well? Name: J'London H Date: 2004-04-05 23:02:00 Link to this Comment: 9186 |
My name is J'London Hawkins and I am a rising Junior Philosophy Major.
The task of defining "living well" is a difficult one for me, as it much resembles the question of defining "normal". I don't think that anyone person can define living well. Living well in my terms is living a life that is fufilled and enjoyable. Although I do beleive that Bryn Mawr is an abnormally stressful environment, we as young adults are grappling with many of the same issues as our peers across the country at diverse institutions. I see this period in my life as one where I will define for myself my own concept of living well. Prior to coming to Bryn Mawr, many students live a life structured by family, school and other activities. This is our oppuritunity as adults to learn about ourselves, things that will be crucial to our success in life. At this point I am understanding how much sleep I need to be fully productive, what stressors incapicitate me and how to eat healthfully or suffer the consequences. Although these lessons come at the price of sleepless nights, tired days and agitated stomachs, they are utterly invaluable. This is a period where our lives are no longer micromanaged by "adults", we are the adults managing our own lives!
Understanding this, I wonder how or if my parents could have taught the lessons I am learning the hard way? Is the concept of "living well" one that can be taught? Or is it only truly developed and refined through experience?
Cheers,
J'London A. Hawkins
balance Name: Jessica Kn Date: 2004-04-06 14:07:49 Link to this Comment: 9206 |
In the past few months I've felt especially stessed, and this semester I feel like I haven't had ANY time for myself. After the discussion last Wednesday, I realized that I really do need to make time to ensure that I am in a positive mental state, and I can see how it would make me more productive.
I've found that being creative, either writing and journaling, or sewing, or painting, has been really helpful in destressing. It's great because I feel like I am doing something productive, but I am really enjoying. it.
Balance Name: Natalie In Date: 2004-04-06 16:25:02 Link to this Comment: 9208 |
Everyday I do a couple of things a day to encourage positive emotional balance. It ranges from taking an extra 15 minutes in the shower to watching Law & Order with my friends (while playing UNO cards).
Name: Kat Date: 2004-04-07 11:44:32 Link to this Comment: 9230 |
Also, it seems that everyone has personal stratagies for enhancing enjoyment, but it is difficult to come up with any community wide methods of doing so. I think the key is in changing our attitudes towards how we work.We must begin to think of the work we do here not as something that is forced upon us, unwilling, but as something we choose as a means to an end. With this comes the realization that we make choices about everything we spend our time on, and we can choose to put aside work and take time for other things. I think realizing that each person is in control of his or her own life, and what they choose to do with it, helps the development of a positive emotional state.
A bit late... Name: Date: 2004-04-07 12:45:41 Link to this Comment: 9233 |
I feel that to be "Living Well" is to be healthy, mostly sane, and generally enjoying oneself (under the umbrella of "healthy" and "mostly sane", natch). An obstacle that prevents _me_ from reaching this state is the Bryn Mawr craziness -- you know, keep up with the work, go to all your classes, start forgetting what sunlight looks like...
Supporting my efforts is the time I take for myself to relax, go out, or just let myself have fun with my work. As a community, I think we should have more opportunities to do just that.
still responding to first one... Name: Kat Macdon Date: 2004-04-07 12:51:14 Link to this Comment: 9234 |
still spamming the list... Name: Kat Macdon Date: 2004-04-07 12:59:35 Link to this Comment: 9235 |
What I could do for my life and others lives... it's a difficult question, I think. The best I think I can do is to make sure I talk to people, _not_ about schoolwork, but about just about anything else.
last one... Name: Kat Macdon Date: 2004-04-07 13:04:26 Link to this Comment: 9236 |
Another Aspect of Living Well Name: J'London H Date: 2004-04-07 20:02:25 Link to this Comment: 9240 |
Another aspect of living well which should be addressed is surrounding yourself with positive people. I beleive that not only is it necessary to eat a healthy diet, excercise and lead a balanced life, you should also have positive social interactions. I sometimes beleive that the Bryn Mawr environment stifles positive social interaction. Although we are baraged with emails daily about happenings on campus, our main core group of emotional group becomes our emotional support. We need these people for mutual affirmation and advice and simply company. I think a huge of living well is choosing your friends.
I made excellent choices.:)
Cheers,
J'London A. Hawkins
positive emotional state Name: suhali Date: 2004-04-09 13:11:28 Link to this Comment: 9254 |
Fitness week 3 Name: Amy Campbe Date: 2004-04-11 19:58:14 Link to this Comment: 9268 |
Name: Kat McCorm Date: 2004-04-12 03:24:56 Link to this Comment: 9279 |
I think the biggest barrier to physical fitness is not having a routine- I know at times it hasn't been a priority of mine to have a fitness routine, just thinking that I'll get in enough excercize here and there, and go to the gym when I have the time. But, as it turns out, blocking out the time and making a plan is really half the battle.
Week 3 Name: Faye McGra Date: 2004-04-13 15:39:47 Link to this Comment: 9340 |
Friends help, of course, in making the effort to go to the gym, but not always. I think one of the greatest ways that the challenge to make time would be to create a dedicated schedule for any exercise, but I am not the type to follow a schedule with any sort of dedication. in the end, I think it comes down to a matter of will. Either you have the strenght to make fitness a part of your life, or you simply don't.
Fitness Name: Suhali Kun Date: 2004-04-13 22:41:56 Link to this Comment: 9351 |
Week 3 b Name: Faye McGra Date: 2004-04-14 02:09:19 Link to this Comment: 9357 |
Name: Kat Macdon Date: 2004-04-14 11:35:11 Link to this Comment: 9361 |
Like Faye, I'm not sure I really have a fitness routine... I walk, and I would ride a bike if I had a bike... Actually, there's something right there. The library now provides bicycles for use by students, and I think I'm going to take advantage of that. I feel uncomfortable exercising in front of others, so the gym is kind of out, but having those bikes available will likely be a major contribution to my personal well-being and fitness.
food Name: Kat Macdon Date: 2004-04-14 11:37:38 Link to this Comment: 9362 |
Fitness Name: Natalie Date: 2004-04-14 11:53:45 Link to this Comment: 9365 |
Eating Right Name: Natalie Date: 2004-04-14 16:47:54 Link to this Comment: 9369 |
Week 4 Good and Bad stress Name: Amy Campbe Date: 2004-04-15 12:18:20 Link to this Comment: 9385 |
fitness 2 Name: Suhali Date: 2004-04-19 22:48:06 Link to this Comment: 9450 |
stress Name: Suhali Date: 2004-04-19 22:55:28 Link to this Comment: 9451 |
Name: Kat Date: 2004-04-20 00:37:08 Link to this Comment: 9457 |
Name: Kat Date: 2004-04-20 01:02:55 Link to this Comment: 9459 |
Living Well Name: Natalie I Date: 2004-04-20 16:40:20 Link to this Comment: 9490 |
stress Name: Jessica Kn Date: 2004-04-20 21:37:13 Link to this Comment: 9497 |
I think that this was mentioned previously, but I believe that if we begin to approach stress from a more optimistic standpoint, life here at Bryn Mawr would be a lot easier. Reggie mentioned that stress can be a good thing. I think that too often we assume that the absence of stress means absolute happiness. This kind of life is impossible. Perhaps if we start talking about stress differently, and de-emphasizing stress as a negative factor in our lives, things would start changing.
I know that the next two weeks will be very busy and demanding of students. I have a lot of things due this week and next week. I'm basically done with my academic career in two weeks! This could be a very stressful time for me, but I am just going to remember that I've come this far, and I've always finished insane amounts of work. It was relatively painless. Maybe by approaching my tasks and my work with a positive attitude, I can enjoy the academic aspects of Bryn Mawr.
Name: kat Date: 2004-04-21 01:28:10 Link to this Comment: 9505 |
Reggie Name: Faye McGra Date: 2004-04-21 01:59:49 Link to this Comment: 9506 |
The only thing that would help my future stress level would be to change my work habits, and I don't think that would change anytime soon. I need to stress to give me the impetus I need to do my work. Without it, I seriously doubt I would do anything at all.
2nd response Name: Faye McGra Date: 2004-04-21 11:05:41 Link to this Comment: 9517 |
Oh, how I wish I could do this! I don't have a positive attitude at all. Work is work, and there is nothing that would make me forgive, forget, and enjoy it. Instead, I wallow in the negative energy that surrounds my tasks and then burst free in exstatic joy upon finishing a project.
Sleep Name: Natalie Date: 2004-04-21 11:17:08 Link to this Comment: 9518 |
Living in Community Name: Amy Campbe Date: 2004-04-22 20:18:48 Link to this Comment: 9559 |
Community Name: Natalie In Date: 2004-04-25 12:47:34 Link to this Comment: 9589 |
communities Name: Suhali Date: 2004-04-27 19:56:59 Link to this Comment: 9653 |
communites Name: Suhali Date: 2004-04-27 20:00:15 Link to this Comment: 9654 |
Name: Faye McGra Date: 2004-04-28 00:31:33 Link to this Comment: 9656 |
Community Name: Natalie In Date: 2004-04-29 15:48:18 Link to this Comment: 9687 |
Name: Kat McCorm Date: 2004-04-30 15:11:55 Link to this Comment: 9701 |
Name: Kat McCorm Date: 2004-04-30 15:16:20 Link to this Comment: 9702 |